No shy winks here. Go “Down the Rabbit Hole” for real thoughts from Jessica Rabbit about her very real sex life.
When I say lesbian experience I don’t mean go and grab the next lipstick- or tomboy-lesbian you see. By lesbian experience I simply mean exploring another woman’s body sexually; she doesn’t have to actually be a lesbian – and neither do you. The term I prefer is bi-curious. I love playing with women, but I could never live without a man and his cock. By the way, the casual peck on the lips in the club doesn’t count as a lesbian experience. You probably did that just to get five seconds of attention. I’m talking about full on scissoring and carpet munching.
What happens when you do get down to exploring a woman’s body is you actually learn more about yourself. Isn’t it true that we women are so familiar with the body of a man? We know how chiseled abs feel beneath our hands, a stubbled face against our cheeks and saggy balls cradled in our mouths. My point is most women are more knowledgeable about the male anatomy than their own. And that’s something I didn’t realize until the first time I went to bed with a girl whose body was similar to mine.
She was about the same height and ethnicity as me with just a few more curves. Once our naked bodies came into contact it was as if my body was magnetically attracted to hers. All I wanted was just to be smothered in her embrace, to feel her legs intertwined with mine, to feel the softness of her body, to feel at last what my own body must feel like to others. It was almost as if I was exploiting her body for my own satisfaction of self discovery. Of course the experience was as sensual as it was sexual. After all, I believe that to truly love oneself one must also be attracted to one’s own body.
But that wasn’t my first experience with a girl. It was just the first where I felt such a strong connection. My actual first time was with a girl whose body was almost opposite to mine. Everything from her hair to her facial features and the elasticity of her skin was different from me. But our time together did leave a lasting impression because she had a special talent for giving oral pleasure to both men and women which sent me to a place of ecstasy within seconds. It was the first time being with a girl for the both of us. Back then I was too shy to return the favor, but these days I’m more than happy to taste a woman’s pleasure zones.
Don’t get too excited though. There’s this idea floating around that girls automatically know how to eat pussy. It’s not true. So far only one girl has been able to bring me to climax with her mouth. Every other girl I’ve been with since, no matter how enthusiastic has been unable to do the same. See why I can’t live without men? Maybe I haven’t been lucky because the girls I’ve been with lacked experience.
The last reason why I think there needs to be more girl-on-girl action is because the world could use more open-mindedness in general. Think about why you won’t do it. Is it because society or religion tells you its a sin? That being “normal” means being with only one man your whole life? I think it’s important to love on all levels and mostly to love yourself. If you want to experience something new and enthralling, just do it.
Fall further down the rabbit hole:
Jessica Rabbit reviews Bangkok’s feast of international douchebags
Sex in the tropics: 9 tips for getting off without blowing your boiler
Believe it or not, I dated a hot virgin in Bangkok
